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Writer's Block: Go it alone
Dec. 9th, 2009 02:16 pm[Error: unknown template qotd]
I do think there's a lot of pressure, and I think it's absolutely stupid. If someone is perfectly content being alone or unmarried and having no children, society looks at them like they're somehow weird. In the same sense that it makes me angry when someone gets judged for the gender of person they're attracted to, it makes me angry when someone is judged because they would rather not marry or get into a relationship at all. Everyone should be allowed to do what makes them happy without having the world try to pressure them into following their ideal of "perfection"! For everyone, happiness is different and we all have different goals, and I think before anyone decides to be judgmental, they should take into account that maybe the perfect fairy tale ending that we all strive for is different for every person!
*calms down* ^^; God, I sure can rant. My mom was watching over my shoulder and she was like "You should be a lawyer" XDDDDD Maybe. Who knows? *completely unsure of the future 8D*
So, it's negative 30 degrees outside. I swear if I have to leave the house I'm going to freaking die. I was thinking of doing Walmart, but there isn't a sale good enough to drag me out right now. Even though I really want to buy some freaking cup o' noodle to keep me waaaaaaaarm *weeps in corner*
Funfact: my "fairy tale ending" involves living alone or maybe with a friend and being completely independent with a job that I love that makes me happy. It doesn't involve marriage or a lot of money and it probably doesn't involve kids (as much as I love them). It does, however, having a ton of stuff published, even if I don't get famous.
So anyway,![[livejournal.com profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/external/lj-userinfo.gif)
lovinjerryt's birthday is tomorrow, so I'd better go get to work on her present... very hush-hush about what it is, of course *zips lips* I'll post it here tomorrow. And Andrea (yurecia)'s birthday was yesterday. Happy belated birthday, sweetie! <3
I have the biggest crush on Frank Sinatra EVER ;_;
EDIT: my mom (with the double D's XDDDD) just came into my room with my bra from the laundry, and she was like "here's your headband, Danie", and I was like "That's my bra, mom", and she was like "For serious? O:" That's when you know you're not well-endowed XDDDDDDDDDD
I do think there's a lot of pressure, and I think it's absolutely stupid. If someone is perfectly content being alone or unmarried and having no children, society looks at them like they're somehow weird. In the same sense that it makes me angry when someone gets judged for the gender of person they're attracted to, it makes me angry when someone is judged because they would rather not marry or get into a relationship at all. Everyone should be allowed to do what makes them happy without having the world try to pressure them into following their ideal of "perfection"! For everyone, happiness is different and we all have different goals, and I think before anyone decides to be judgmental, they should take into account that maybe the perfect fairy tale ending that we all strive for is different for every person!
*calms down* ^^; God, I sure can rant. My mom was watching over my shoulder and she was like "You should be a lawyer" XDDDDD Maybe. Who knows? *completely unsure of the future 8D*
So, it's negative 30 degrees outside. I swear if I have to leave the house I'm going to freaking die. I was thinking of doing Walmart, but there isn't a sale good enough to drag me out right now. Even though I really want to buy some freaking cup o' noodle to keep me waaaaaaaarm *weeps in corner*
Funfact: my "fairy tale ending" involves living alone or maybe with a friend and being completely independent with a job that I love that makes me happy. It doesn't involve marriage or a lot of money and it probably doesn't involve kids (as much as I love them). It does, however, having a ton of stuff published, even if I don't get famous.
So anyway,
lovinjerryt's birthday is tomorrow, so I'd better go get to work on her present... very hush-hush about what it is, of course *zips lips* I'll post it here tomorrow. And Andrea (yurecia)'s birthday was yesterday. Happy belated birthday, sweetie! <3I have the biggest crush on Frank Sinatra EVER ;_;
EDIT: my mom (with the double D's XDDDD) just came into my room with my bra from the laundry, and she was like "here's your headband, Danie", and I was like "That's my bra, mom", and she was like "For serious? O:" That's when you know you're not well-endowed XDDDDDDDDDD
